" HOW TO KEEP HAPPY TO YOUR GIRL FRIEND"

Keeping your girlfriend happy is the key to a successful relationship. Read on and find out how to keep your girlfriend happy.

Babu and Shitu are in a relationship since six and a half years. Lately they have been fighting like cats. Shitu throws a tantrum if Babu shows up late for a date. Babu feels jealous when she talks about other guys. If things remain like they are the relationship is surely going to hit the rocks. As time passes and the honeymoon period gets over, couples stop behaving like they did when they first began the relationship. Though it may seem difficult to understand a girl's emotions you can try some tricks to keep her happy. Here are few things a guy can do to keep his girlfriend happy.

Be loyal to her 

This is the most basic and important rule. You would not mind occasional flirting but it could lead to bigger issues. Do not two time her, come what may! The relationship prospers if you are honest. Do not try to cheat on your partner. Discuss issues and communicate if you feel there is a problem. No one is perfect and there will be always something more that you will desire. Being loyal is not about not getting attracted but it is remembering that you have a partner who loves you, every time you feel attracted.

Say sorry 

Do not be reluctant to say sorry if you have made a mistake or have hurt her in some way. 'Apology is a lovely perfume; it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious one,' whoever said this said it rightly. Never say, 'I am sorry that I hurt you'. This shows arrogance. Instead, say that you are sorry and you should not have done so.

Say that you love her 

These three magical words do wonders. 'I love you' is what you have to tell her from time to time to make your relationship strong. Gently hold her hand, look deep into her eyes and tell her how much you love her and how much you care about her

Call her back 

You do not have to climb on roof tops and shout your lungs out to her. If you love her, express it. Do not forget to call her back when you said to do so. At least call up once a day to ask what is she doing? Did she have her food on time? Just make a call to say 'I miss you' or 'I love you'. It shows you care and all it takes is a five minute call.

Give missed calls 

Whenever you get time, buzz her to tell her that you are missing her. Your missed calls will make her feel special. They will also create a mysterious effect and you will have something to talk about when you actually call up or meet. Activate a romantic caller tune on your mobile phone. If she returns your missed calls, she will first hear the romantic number that will captivate her heart.

Send her sweet text messages 

Make the best use of technology when you are running short on time. If you cannot call her then text her. Shower her with cute messages just to tell her that she is on your mind. Text her and let her know that you are missing her a lot (do not fake it). In your text messages mention sweet names for her like sweetheart, honey or cutie pie.

Share things with her 

Let her know about your life. Do not create a big gap. Tell her about your past, if it is important, before she gets to know from some other source. Introduce her to your friends, tell her about what happened at work or tell her what your mother is cooking on this weekend. Ask her opinion on which shirt you should wear for work. It will make her feel that you value her.

Spend time with her 

No relationship will work unless you give it time. Remember your first dateand try to make your every other date as exciting as the first time you met. Your girlfriend will appreciate that you made time for her. Do things that will make the time you spent together memorable. A candle light dinner and a romantic love song with some champagne can make her fantasies real. There is nothing more romantic than taking a walk on a rainy day without any umbrellas. Sip some coffee together after that and you see her glow with the warmth of your love. Do the unexpected at times. It can turn a simple date into an eventful one.

Give her some space 

Do not keep nagging. Give her some breathing space. Do not act over possessive. Let her spend time with her friends. Do not feel envious when she is enjoying with her pals. Let her know that you trust her. Avoid clinging to her like magnet all the time. A little space is important to let her miss you.

Respect her decisions 

Remember something you learnt at school? Give respect and you will get respect. Respect her decisions and encourage her to achieve her goals. Call her and wish her good luck if she is going on a job interview. Stand by her side if she is depressed regarding her career or family. Tell her not to worry and be there for her. It is okay if you cannot give great advice but just by making her feel that you are there for her can make her feel better.

Public display of affection 

Show your affection for her publicly. Do not feel hesitant. Hold her hand when you are walking. Put your hand around her shoulder and make her feel that you really care for her. Avoid kissing in public or you will find raised eyebrows around you. In worse cases, you might attract some rude remarks.

Complement her 

You have approached her as you liked everything about her. Complement her when you notice something nice about her. Adore her beautiful smile. Admire her new attire or haircut. Tell her that you love the perfume she wears. Do not criticise her habits and do not try to change her. If there is really a problem, discuss it with her and find a solution together.

Drop love notes and letters 

Go with the saying 'old is gold'. Adopt the old way of writing a letter. Write a letter, sprinkle the perfume you wear on it and mail it on the address of your sweetheart. She will be more than glad to receive a love letter from you. Without her knowledge leave a love note wherever she can find it easily and surprise her.

Surprise her with gifts 

Shower her with gifts frequently. You need not buy very expensive gifs. Out of the blue treat her with her favourite flavour of ice-cream. Give her a bunch of roses, call her and tell that you have booked movie tickets for one of the latest movies she wanted to watch. A cuddle toy melts the hardest hearts; send it to her with a love note attached to it.

Be yourself 

Do not pretend to be humorous, if you are not. Be your self. She will love you the way you are and not for some other reason. She will easily see through you. You may not be good at cracking jokes but you may be a romantic at heart. Be an original and you will be loved.

Make her laugh 

You need not to be a laughter champion to make her laugh. A few spontaneous jokes can make her giggle. Tell her about funny incident that happened to you when you were a small boy or tell her about some funny thing you read somewhere. You do not have to try any tricks for this, just share some funny episodes.

Pamper her 

Who does not like getting pampered? Sometimes treat her like a small girl. Buy chocolates and pastries for her. Pick up the heart shaped balloon for her. Tell her a story. Write poems for her. Think of your favourite love song and sing it for her. If you cannot sing then give her a CD of songs you would like to sing to her. You can also dedicate a song for her on a radio channel which plays songs on your demand. However, do not forget to ask her to tune in at the right time.

Hugs & kisses 

Warm hugs and passionate kisses blossom a relationship. A loving touch can work like magic. Greet her with a warm affectionate hug when you meet her. Not only hugs and kisses but a loving touch like holding her hand and caressing her is necessary to show your love towards her. When you are sitting with a group of friends, hold her hand below the table and see her trying to hide her blush. 

If you have been going through a rough patch with your girl friend or just fallen in love, you now have the secret to make your girl friend happy. A relationship needs to be nurtured and it is the small things that make a big difference. It is time now to give her wonderful reasons to fall in love with you all over again. 

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MY BAD ROOM MATES

Thanks for being so awesome. I have never expected in the wildest of dreams to have such caring, friendly and lovely room-mates like you. I really appreciated it whenever you made sure I don’t fall asleep by banging the door close so loud that I woke up from the deepest sleep. I also liked how you showcased your music performance skills .. Regardless of whether I am busy with my work or I am sleeping. And whenever you played those favourite songs of yours (whether they are actually good or not is another story) loud on the laptop speaker, I only thought you were too busy or poor to buy yourself a headphone and use it. To round-up, I was simply mesmerized by most, if not all, of your antics.

Sorry for the excessive sarcasm. I know you don’t like me and because of that, I didn't feel obliged to like you either. But, that never forced me into hating you either. I don’t know how you managed to miss that part out. May be (pure speculation), you never developed the art of thinking critically. If that speculation is actually true, that would explain most of your rudely kind of behaviour!

When you complained to the hall mistress about me last time, I kept quiet expecting the overly pampered kid will eventually be catapulted to the reality. But, you continued to disappoint me and refused to grow up. With you wearing your arrogance. . After all, I thought, if I were to do to you what you did (and still doing) to me, there won’t be any difference between you and me. But, telling you that you should be ashamed of your deeds is like throwing a small pebble in one of the thousand waves of a mighty ocean. In other words, it is not worthy of the effort. So, I shall stop short of that.

Only time will tell, if we would ever meet up again in the future. But, I am not really sure if you might have learnt the hard truth that you are yet to grow up to meet the several outlying and cruelly excruciating lessons of life. Many thanks to you, I did learn those lessons and probably the only best thing you managed to provide me. Some day, you should learn those lessons too. Who knows, they might be really helpful in the future.

And, since you did take your creative license loosely to paint me as a villain among your friends, something which I really wasn't, I understand that I too can do the same. So, don’t get mad. You do know that most of the things said above are hard truth.

My Long-Distance Relationship:-

This is not a beautiful love story where I live happily ever after with the girl. I met in orkut. However, it is a true love story with life lessons, and a happy ending.
In the winter of 2010, I met a girl while I was studying MBA in temple city Bhubaneswar orissa. It was our typical meet cue a orkut.com. I went up to her through chat box and said hello, and the night went from there talking,and sharing about us. including family , likes ,dislikes.  and this is continued in same way for two year.

Flash forward through a year of keeping in touch via  G talk and Facebook,, and getting more closure with her. after completion of my MBA I met her in my home town silk city Berhampur. first time i saw her physically. and when i saw her eyes. my eyes started blenching . and i felt nervous in front of her. it was great day for me. then we came more closure. 

Than We talked every night despite the 17-hour time difference and I felt exceedingly happy.  after some days she shifted to Hyderabad . again we are separated . still we had a relation like a common friend. one day i have taken the risk and proposed . after that she stopped talking with me. i have cried a lot for her. and she realized my feeling and after pros accepted my love.

one day again she stopped talking with me. i feared. and get to knew that she was not well. i was in tension. she left Hyderabad came to home town again. after some days we met gain. went to beach, and it was first drive when she was shitted behind me. and i have kissed her for the first time.The more I analyzed the situation, the more that I convinced myself everything was fine. and that when he arrived it would be perfect again. After all, I had drastically altered my life plans to make this work, and I would be damned if it wasn’t going to because of my doubts.

I realized that the wonderful romance that we had experienced was more of an illusion than a reality.than after i came to Bhubaneswar . she also came after some month. we get Closure and closure. we roamed together we went every place including park,temple, malls. . but in between one guy has came to her life. and she  had been this exciting for the guy . I could never actually doubted her because there was a world separating us. Then when it began to become a possibility, I was too wrapped up in the excitement to notice anything else. she was always a safe and comfortable friend, someone to flirt with, and fantasize about. she was someone who I could vent to and share my day with, someone to have all the wonderful parts of a relationship with but without any of the hardships.

and finally we are separated on apr 1 2013.  on that day i was cried a lot due to loosing her.  and i missed her. i felt like i loosing my self. and the darkness  came in front me. after 5 days i came in normal stage . i got the strength from my friends. after some days i left the job and came to pune . i have try ed a lot to forget her but i couldn't. one day i got the call. the call was from my past lover, sweet heart shitu. i heard her voice after long time. the voice was like fearing voice. she was shying due to her new relationship. and she cried. but i could 'not understood her feeling . .

again after some days i went to my home town she was there at bhubaneswar  . i met her and when i saw  her cried eyes. again i have started feeling about her. and i kissed her. but she stopped me. and that day huge rainfall was there.after leaving at her hostel . i came to home town. 

I have started same life in pune. like friends masti, but i was still missing her. i got everything but i couldn't find true love from any where. one day i got the call. she told me she is there in pune.i met her . but she was stayed distance due to my wrong information that Iam in love with someone. but that was false . i make her understand . I only made for  her. than we settled our old faults again came in relationship.

Ultimately, it was not the right time for us romantically, but we managed to salvage a strong friendship from everything and we remain close. But the wonderful thing about life is that you can’t possibly predict what the future will bring and none of our stories are over yet.

Story continued...................................

days are went successfully.  again we forgot our past .and came closure .she relized her past wht she does and cried a lot. even if iam also cried . i felt her eyes says something to me. again i came closure to her. i hold her hand  and kissed on her forehead

the second part of love continued successfully.  what ever i made the plans she agreed with the plan. accordingly we have visted temple, malls,tourist spots and so many places.  

Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces.

I don´t know what else I can do to stop this "craving" to see you and, at the same time, sweeten the bitterness of these slow and long days; I long to be near you again, to hold your hand, to give you a kiss and a hug and to tell you, again, how much I love you! Phone calls are not enough any more... I miss you being around, I miss seeing your face and the tone of your voice gently touching my ears, instead of hearing it through the long wires. 


My love, I want you to know that I can´t get you out of my mind, not even for a minute, be it day or night; my most recurring dreams are the ones that make me feel we are together again and make me think, for a brief moment, that the torture of us being apart is finally over! 


Yes, I wish the phone would ring again, but this time to let me know that you are coming back, that you are dying to see me and hold me, and that you are anxious to receive all my most devoted caresses. I just pray to God that this waiting doesn´t last too much longer! 

Sometimes, it's hard to find words to tell you how much you mean to me. A lot of times, I don't say anything at all. But I hope someday, you'll understand, having you is what I live for.

sweet memos

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